Parler est un besoin, écouter est un art.

Recently I went to Belgium to visit some family and I found this postcard, first of all I picked out the card due to the fact that it was pink and I understood some of the words in French.

“Parler est un besoin, écouter est un art.” – Goethe

Which translates to “talking is a need, but listening is an art.” 

And truthfully I never thought of it that way. We always have the need to talk, talk to people about how we’re doing, what we did that day, ask people questions and just talk a lot in general, where as listening, listening is one of the greatest things, we listen to music, we listen to other people talk about things. Whenever we talk about qualities we always mention how it’s a great quality, to be a good listener. I just thought it was a beautiful quote.

QUOTES TO LIVE BY

Tumblr is a great place, especially if you want to find some great quotes. I must admit, I have an entire board in my room filled with quotes, so I thought I’d share some quotes to live by. 

“He is not the sun. You are.”
“A mistake repeated more than once is a decision.”
“Maybe we’ll meet again, when we’re slightly older and our minds less hectic, and I’ll be right for you and you’ll be right for me. But right now I am chaos to your thoughts and you are poison to my heart.”
“Powerful women do not have to act masculine or cold in order to get things done. Powerful women can be huggers who name their dog Lamby and make flower crowns in their free time.”
“It’s okay to lose yourself for a little while. In books, in music, in art. Let yourself get lost.”
“If you’re gonna bail, bail early. This applies to relationships, college classes, and sledding,”
“Everybody isn’t going to love you. Most people don’t even love themselves.”
“Someday you will look back and know exactly why it had to happen.”
“Don’t drag other people if you’re having a bad day. Instead, absorb people’s positivity to lift you up. So everyone can have a happy life.”
“You can eat all the veggies you want and work out as hard as you ever have, but if your mind isn’t healthy than you’ll never feel right.”
My tumblr: healthy-and-fit-never-quit.tumblr.com